myprinceharry : Fandom goodbye post

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Sept 4, 2017
http://mrharrywales.tumblr.com/post/164984978066/hello-everyone-its-been-a-good-two-years-since-i
Hello everyone,
It’s been a good two years since I last posted here, I think.
Today, the announcement of the third baby Cambridge made me want to come here. I have given deep thought on everything I wrote about the Cambridges, Harry’s girlfriends, Harry himself, of the past 6 years of blog. I came back here and read some of the comments I had answered years ago, and couldn’t help but notice how judgemental I was. 
Judgemental of people I don’t know. Judgemental on how they should live their lives. I judged people based on my own idea and perspective of what was right or wrong. But who says I’m right when I say someone else’s choice of dress, girlfriend or charity is right or wrong? That’s just a matter of opinion. And I have worn my opinion on my finger tips as if it was the absolute truth and splashed away all sorts of unkind, not-understanding and mean comments. For that, I am embarrassed.
Coming back here made me realise how much I’ve grown up since I first started this blog. I was a teenager when I first posted a picture of Harry, whilst completely infatuated with the Royal Wedding in 2011. Harry caught my eyes wearing that Princely uniform, and soon I fell for the kind and caring human being that he is. That’s why I decided to start this blog. 
Somehow and somewhere over the years I lost focus. I got carried away and commented on Harry’s personal life, fiercely judged his ex/girfriends, his family (specially his brother and sister in law). I was probably influenced by other people who followed the Royals a lot longer than me, and I shouldn’t have done. But that, is my own fault.
I am here today to end a journey and I couldn’t end it properly without apologising. I know that the people affected by my mean comments will probably never read this, or even know that I exist, but I need to let it out of my chest.
I am really sorry for having intruded Harry’s personal life by looking for and looking through his private social media accounts. I am sorry for having judged every single decision he made in his love life, specially because that is none of my business. I am sorry for having spread meanness instead of kindness. I am sorry for not understanding then, that Royals and royal relatives are human beings and for writing such harsh words when I judged they’d wronged.
My days of being a royal watcher and follow their every move are over. I will always have the great admiration I’ve always had, for William and Kate. Yes, Kate. I admire her patience and her strength to fight for something and someone she really loved. The result of her perseverance… three gracious children and a beautiful family. And I am happy to be here, not caring about what other bloggers or anonymous commenters are going to think about me expressing my admiration of Kate. 
And Harry. Well, I’ll always love him. I’ll always have a soft spot in my heart for him. I think, more than ever, that he is a great role model. Even though I might not always agree with the steps he takes in life, now I know and respect that those, are private decisions that don’t concern me. To him, I have to always be grateful. He opened my eyes and showed me that you can do good and bring happiness wherever you are and wherever you go.
I hope Harry, his family and every single person I’ve wrongly judged on this blog have a nice, happy and fulfilled life. 
Lots of love.
Xoxo,
Mel

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